When people look at me, do they think that I'm not
able to have a life for myself because I have a disability? Do they think that
I don't understand how life works in the big world? That's why when I hear the
word "no," it makes me feel like I have to show people that I am a
normal person like anyone else. I want to show everyone that I am not sitting
around, feeling sorry for myself. Sometimes I do wish that I didn't have CP,
but I can't do anything about it. I hope this book will help people overcome
the barrier and begin understanding people with disabilities.
When I was born, the doctors said I was too small
and likely wouldn’t survive. If I did survive, they said I would never
learn much. I would always need specialized care and I would never be
independent. Walking was out of the question, and there was no guarantee
I would survive long enough to try. Of course, falling in love, working,
playing, and making life long friends could only happen in my parents'
imagination. Dreams and goals were also out of the question; the doctors
assured my family that my brain was too small and would never have the capacity
for such abstract thought. Even recognizing members of my family would be
beyond my abilities. At seven months old they said I had cerebral palsy
(CP), damage to my brain, and quadriplegia affecting all four limbs. Some
people use the word "gimped" to describe me; to them, it is
synonymous with "stupid". I hear a lot of harsh words: retard,
handicapped, slow, useless, and every other name imaginable. As I grew, I
learned that despite those labels, I was like anyone else who had a dream or a
goal.
Having a disability does not define who I am in
this world. Who I am is a determined woman, a family member, a graphic
designer, and a writer. I have dreams and goals like anyone else. Yes, I've had
to adapt to my circumstances but I can do the same things as many of you can,
just in a different way. My disability doesn’t hold me back from what I
want out of life. So whenever I hear someone tell me, "You can't do that
because of your disability," it motivates me to show everyone that I can.
I believe my life has little to do with having
cerebral palsy. On the other hand, it has everything to do with hope,
strength of character, morality, and happiness. I have accomplished many
different physical things in my life that were not anticipated, such as moving
from my knees to standing, completing the manoeuvre on the toilet, and driving
a wheelchair. The steps involved are similar to a child first learning to
walk. For me, it was a natural progression.
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